Use Unix socket to pass IMAP updates from maddyctl to daemon

There is abstraction 'updates pipe' defined for future use with
configuration involving IMAP data replication (e.g. multiple nodes with
maddy instances + PostgreSQL replicas + S3 bucket for messages).

However, for the case of local SQLite3 DB, limited UDS-based
implementation is provided. It solves the problem of maddyctl not being
able to tell the server about modifications it makes. Alternative to
this approach would be to have server actually perform operations and
maddyctl being a dumb API client, but this requires a lot more complex
IPC interface and will not work when the server is down.

cmd/maddyctl/imap.go

@@ -233,7 +233,6 @@ func msgsRemove(be Storage, ctx *cli.Context) error {
 	}
 
 	if !ctx.Bool("yes") {
-		fmt.Fprintf(os.Stderr, "Currently, it is unsafe to remove messages from mailboxes used by connected clients, continue?")
 		if !clitools.Confirmation("Are you sure you want to delete these messages?", false) {
 			return errors.New("Cancelled")
 		}