check for WSAEMSGSIZE errors when receiving UDP packets on Windows (#3982)

* check for WSAEMSGSIZE errors when receiving UDP packets on Windows

* check EMSGSIZE error on macOS

send_queue.go

@@ -82,7 +82,7 @@ func (h *sendQueue) Run() error {
 				// 1. Checking for "datagram too large" message from the kernel, as such,
 				// 2. Path MTU discovery,and
 				// 3. Eventual detection of loss PingFrame.
-				if !isMsgSizeErr(err) {
+				if !isSendMsgSizeErr(err) {
 					return err
 				}
 			}